Building Self Confidence

This is the final discussion so I will finish up our exploration of self confidence and take a look at the final (and most advanced) quality of the confident individual: a system of personal values.  The development of personal values may sound like a daunting task, but it is an often overlooked foundation on which many aspire to build a working positive model for their lives.

Self Confidence and the Value System

A value system helps us develop a “big picture” that turns us from an ordinary person striving to achieve small goals that may seem meaningless at first into a dynamic and healthy individual that can push for the “big picture” of his or her life.

 The value system is one of the most important things we can develop as human beings, and the burden of responsibility for developing them rests solely on each individual, though many will choose to borrow ideas from others.  This too is a choice, and each person must decide which of these values they make a part of their lives.

A mature and well thought out system of values adds weight to everything you do and helps you gain an understanding of your own self worth.  It also ensures that you don’t encounter obstacles beyond your ability to “act commendably” in your eyes.  Self worth is a sort of nourishment to the mind that helps you get out of bed in the morning with a desire to act, and act well.

 Unfortunately, many people focus on past shortcomings and allow them to deteriorate their sense of self worth rather than learn from them.  Remember that the ultimate goal is the realization of your dreams and the decision to transform yourself into who you wish to be.  And if you come to the realization that your life is exactly the way you want it to be, then you’re well on your way to building a powerful aura of self confidence.

Though you may have to work toward what you wish to have, the tools required to transform yourself into who you wish to be are at your disposal right now. You can begin at any point.

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No one can tell you exactly how you should decide which values are right for you.  This is exactly what makes them valuable.  They are yours and yours alone.  What do you find yourself admiring about others?  When are you happy and unhappy?  These are good questions to start with, but you will always be adding to your value system as you progress through life and gain in wisdom and experience.

And all through it your basic foundation – that immutable inner voice, will tell you how you’re doing.  When you have made contact with this inner voice and nurture your values with action, you will be more confident not only in your interactions with other people, but also the important relationship you have with yourself.  Know what is valuable, so you can either find or develop it from within.

Perhaps most important is to understand that you must be consistent with values.  Don’t let them slip away when you succeed only to appear again when you do not.  Let yourself be empowered so you can better serve what is important to you in the future.  A confident person is one who has an intimate knowledge of their strengths and a genuine interest in not being conquered by their weaknesses.  Do this and your confidence will be noticed by others. 

What is Introspection in Self Confiedence?

Introspection is a very important aspect of our entrainment, so when you look into your mind and see the person you wish to be, take notice of the respect you feel toward this person.  Thank you for taking the time to read our manual on confidence boosting.  Never underestimate the power of your own mind to do great things.

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Building Self Confidence

When you observe your family and friends interacting there is often an individual present who seems unconcerned of whether others are judging him or not and who clearly gets along without worrying about the small things that happen around them in a certain group.  This comes from two sources, one external and one internal.  Let’s explore the internal today.

Self Confidence Exercise

An interesting exercise is to think to yourself in the quickest way possible to find a word that accurately describes you as a person in a short period of time.  Is the word a neutral observation?  If so, think about that neutral observation and see how you feel about it.  You’d be surprised how polarizing this can be for many people. 

Even positive words can often be born out of a sense of desire rather than observation.  Take “confident,” for example.  Did that word pop into your head because you were feeling confident?  Or because you wanted confidence?  Was the word a physical feature you liked?  Or disliked?  Was it connected to something you’d like to accomplish?

Confidence is an incredibly important trait to possess, and the funny thing about it is it really does come from within.  Remember the analogy from last time about the mind as a garden.  Negative experiences that hurt our self confidence are like twisted vines that will try to choke out the good experiences.  And the good experiences can be multiplied by action. 

If you’re talking to someone and you’re thinking the whole time subconsciously, “I don’t want to be rejected by this person,” they will pick up on it and wonder why you feel you should be rejected.  Occasionally these thoughts can be so strong that they can even bleed into the conscious.  We live in a society that thrives on apprehension and poor self image.  But if you can change that into strong self confidence, you’ll find that the less you worry about rejection the less you will experience it. 

And when you don’t worry about it, even experiencing it won’t harm you as much as it once did.  Think of our entrainment therapy like a machine built by a skilled gardener to help remove this self doubt so you can start living the way you want. 

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 Check it out and live on your own terms.

Most communication happens on several levels.  On the level that we judge people most signs of self confidence are things that cannot be faked.  Aside from a few easy to see through “tricks” (men are told to take up as much space as possible while sitting, for example) there are no ways to truly pretend to be self confident. 

Imagine your voice like you’re singing a song.  A confident person will naturally hit the right notes that indicate they know what they’re doing.  If they are faking it, they will inevitably hit a false note and the facade will come crashing down.  The only way to truly achieve it is by feeling it first.

There’s no need for dehumanizing manuals that constantly remind you of things you hate, and that pretend that everyone in the world “gets it” except you.  Those manuals don’t know you and they don’t know anyone around you.  If you met some of the people who write those you would be surprised at how insecure they were too.  You do know what you’re doing.  And there’s no label hanging above your head.  Be who you want as soon as you’re ready to.

And that brings us to the most important change that must take place.  You must make a deeply rooted personal decision to be that confident person.  If you subconsciously feel like you deserve less than everyone around you, then you won’t change.  Make the change one of identity through visualization.  Imagine in your head a realistic version of who you’d really like to be.  Make this person real to you. 

Give them hopes, aspirations, small victories, and a situation they can truly be proud of.  Don’t imagine the world around them changing to accommodate them.  Imagine them making changes to get what they want, and having a long term plan of where they want to go.  After visualizing it mentally, understand that you are your visualization.  Everything in them came from you.  And you can do everything they can with practice if you have a sense of self worth.

We’ve covered the internal aspects of confidence, but next time let’s take a look at some of the steps you can take on the outside to express your newly found confident self.  And remember, travel with a destination in mind.  Be confident, set goals, and achieve them.

Have a safe and enlightened journey!

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Building Self Confidence

    Self confidence and is important in the social hierarchy read part 1.  (Read Part 1)When you observe your family and friends interacting there is often an individual present who seems unconcerned of whether others are judging him or not and who clearly gets along without worrying about the small things that happen around them in a certain group.  This comes from two sources, one external and one internal. 

Let’s explore the internal today.

An interesting exercise is to think to yourself in the quickest way possible to find a word that accurately describes you as a person in a short period of time.  Is the word a neutral observation?  If so, think about that neutral observation and see how you feel about it.  You’d be surprised how polarizing this can be for many people. 

Even positive words can often be born out of a sense of desire rather than observation.  Take “confident,” for example.  Did that word pop into your head because you were feeling confident?  Or because you wanted confidence?  Was the word a physical feature you liked?  Or disliked?  Was it connected to something you’d like to accomplish?

Confidence is an incredibly important trait to possess, and the funny thing about it is it really does come from within.  Remember the analogy from last time about the mind as a garden.  Negative experiences that hurt our self confidence are like twisted vines that will try to choke out the good experiences.  And the good experiences can be multiplied by action. 

If you’re talking to someone and you’re thinking the whole time subconsciously, “I don’t want to be rejected by this person,” they will pick up on it and wonder why you feel you should be rejected.  Occasionally these thoughts can be so strong that they can even bleed into the conscious.  We live in a society that thrives on apprehension and poor self image.  But if you can change that into strong self confidence, you’ll find that the less you worry about rejection the less you will experience it. 

And when you don’t worry about it, even experiencing it won’t harm you as much as it once did.  Think of our entrainment therapy like a machine built by a skilled gardener to help remove this self doubt so you can start living the way you want.  You can always find great confidence boosting entrainment therapy at The Unexplainable Store  Check it out and live on your own terms.

Most communication happens on several levels.  On the level that we judge people most signs of self confidence are things that cannot be faked.  Aside from a few easy to see through “tricks” (men are told to take up as much space as possible while sitting, for example) there are no ways to truly pretend to be confident.  Imagine your voice like you’re singing a song.

 A confident person will naturally hit the right notes that indicate they know what they’re doing.  If they are faking it, they will inevitably hit a false note and the facade will come crashing down.  The only way to truly achieve it is by feeling it first.

There’s no need for dehumanizing manuals that constantly remind you of things you hate, and that pretend that everyone in the world “gets it” except you.  Those manuals don’t know you and they don’t know anyone around you.  If you met some of the people who write those you would be surprised at how insecure they were too.  You do know what you’re doing.  And there’s no label hanging above your head.  Be who you want as soon as you’re ready to.

And that brings us to the most important change that must take place.  You must make a deeply rooted personal decision to be that confident person.  If you subconsciously feel like you deserve less than everyone around you, then you won’t change.  Make the change one of identity through visualization.  Imagine in your head a realistic version of who you’d really like to be.  Make this person real to you. 

Give them hopes, aspirations, small victories, and a situation they can truly be proud of.  Don’t imagine the world around them changing to accommodate them.  Imagine them making changes to get what they want, and having a long term plan of where they want to go.  After visualizing it mentally, understand that you are your visualization.  Everything in them came from you.  And you can do everything they can with practice if you have a sense of self worth.

We’ve covered the internal aspects of confidence, but next time let’s take a look at some of the steps you can take on the outside to express your newly found confident self.  And remember, travel with a destination in mind.  Be confident, set goals, and achieve them.

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Let’s take a look at the important concept of self confidence.  The perception of oneself is one of the single most important factors along with hard work toward achieving success both socially and while working with others professionally. 

Indeed, self confidence is often cited as the single most important aspect of one’s personality when determining success.  The logic here is that while qualifications and determination are important factors, these would not actually get a hard working individual the success they could ultimately enjoy if they did not exercise their self worth.

Our tools are here to help you.  The mind is constantly imposing limitations on itself.  It ends up being like a fog that makes our goals ultimately difficult to see.  We can intellectually see what makes us happy, but we lack the confidence to make those dreams into real world plans. 

Our entrainment therapy can help with this.  Self discovery is a lifelong process, but with this fog hanging over you it will be impossible to pick a direction to navigate yourself to your ultimate destiny. 

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The Great Earl Nightingale said it perfectly when he spoke the same words told over and over again from generation to generation and repackaged as the greatest secret ever kept from the hard workers in the world: You are what you think about. 

Think to yourself.  What is success?  What do I have to do before I finally sit back, nod to myself and say, “I’ve done it.  I am a success.”  Some would say this is an impossible endeavor while others would simply hold their hands up and shake their heads, themselves never exploring their full potential.  The reality is the things that make you a success are your own worthwhile goals achieved over time. 

People who sell confidence in seminars or long length novels are nine times out of ten selling this simple secret that has been told and retold throughout the ages.  There it is for free.  Knowledge rightfully has a reputation as being a very powerful thing.  The simple truth is, have the confidence to pick the goal you want.  Define your destiny in one sentence and stick to it.

We live in one of the most incredible times in history to be alive.  The world is changing every day and we have it in ourselves to make an empire without using anything more than our minds.  And yet it is also one of the most complicated and seemingly daunting of worlds as well. 

The economy worldwide is taking a turn for the worse, people are frightened of their own financial ruin, and everyone seems to be reserving their money rather than working to carve a larger place for themselves in the world.  The simple fact of the matter is, there is an epidemic of poor self confidence, and it’s not your fault.

95% of people are shaped by circumstance or the world around them.  When asked why people work, 19 out of 20 people will tell you they have no idea why.  They get up in the morning and work because everyone else around them does it.  They need money so they can survive and keep working. 

 They follow others and lack the confidence to realize their own worthy goal.  They show no interest in investing in themselves because they lack the faith that they can achieve such a goal.  These 95% of people live like an orchestra without a conductor. 

With no worthy goal, the only way they will play music is by chance alone.  And chance alone cannot favor 95% of people.  Self confidence and a worthy goal are the true secret to living the life you want.  It’s as simple as that.

Look at the successes you’ve seen.  Are they downtrodden individuals who are caught adrift in life’s circumstances?  If you really think about it, you’ll realize the most successful people are adventurous and above all else exude an almost intoxicating self confidence.  And as you look back on their lives you’ll realize that these were not people who gained self confidence as a result of their success.  Quite the reverse.  They were confident and therefore achieved success.  Now that you know, the time has come to make a decision.  What life will you lead?

Next time let’s take a look at the aspects of social success through self confidence.  There are dozens of pessimistic and dehumanizing guides to dating that results in heartless individuals seeking love in all the wrong places ultimately leading fruitless lives of desperate loneliness. 

With simple friendly language we can learn what comes naturally to us.  Remember that the mind is like a fertile plot of land.  You can choose to let it become overrun with weeds or simply till it and plant fruitful trees and enjoy the benefits for years afterward.

The future is in our hands.  Let’s make it a good one. Thanks for reading part 1 – Go to part 2

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 The subconscious mind determines 90% of what we accomplish every day. It determines how we interact with people, how we deal with everyday problems, and can make or break our self esteem. If the subconscious mind is saturated with negative images, news stories, and anticipations, then that is how other people will see us and that is how we will react to the challenges of everyday life, negatively. And do not doubt that every day will present new challenges.

 The goal is to go to work on the subconscious mind. We have to enter into that vast and dark domain of the subconscious and flush out all that is detrimental and harmful. It is necessary to remove the negative thoughts that have accumulated over the years and hinder or ability to feel good about whom we are. Positive thoughts are easily over shadowed by the accumulation of negativity.

 To transform the subconscious mind from a jungle of negativity into a solid foundation of positive power we have to alter the state of mind and introduce positive brainwave frequencies. Modifications can be made to the subconscious mind when the brain is functioning mostly in the alpha and theta frequency ranges, the relaxation range. Meditation will do the trick. Renewing your subconscious cannot occur while the mind is in the beta range, this being the most awake, highly alert state of mind.

  The Unexplainable Store provides Binaural, Monaural Beats and Isochronic Tones to boost the meditation process, which are specially designed to put the brain into the alpha and theta frequency ranges. In most instances these meditative states can be reached after about 10 minutes of listening and relaxing sessions. It is easier than attempting meditation without the help of these recordings. The truth is that these results can be obtained with untainted meditation but being that we are easily distracted it would take hours to get successful results.

 Increasing confidence is possible and does not have to be difficult. You do have to devote a little time and effort. Meditation on a semi-regular bases combined with listening to Binaural, Monaural Beats and Isochronic Tones will get the job done. Some people have even called them digital drugs, that’s how god they are.

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